Chat or rant, adult content, spam, insulting other members, show more. Harm to minors, violence or threats, harassment or privacy invasion, impersonation or misrepresentation, fraud or phishing, show more. In an 'ersatz' homosexual relationship? I'm well aware of what 'ersatz' means, but I don't understand how it could apply to me and my best friend. I'm a 30 something gay female.
She's a 30 something straight, married, She's a 30 something straight, married, however unhappily, female. My sexuality doesn't bother at all. As far as she's concerned, it's no different than having a gay sibling.
It never effects our friendship or weakens the bond between us. We also have our little 'girl dates' from time to time whether it be a simple get together for lunch.
She considers us to be kindered spirits which we are. It doesn't mean that one is in love with the other or that 'something must be going on between those two' as many of the town gossips like to say.
If we were both straight, would they such things?
Are you sure you want to delete this answer? It boggles the mind that when sex could be involved, it's not. Stupid, yes, but it's the same with two opposite gender hetero friends, two gay men who are dear friends with no attraction to another, etc.
No, if you were straight, they probably wouldn't say it, which is kind of messed up. But that's the way it is. It's totally possible to love and adore someone you respect and feel akin to, and still not want sex and romance, etc.