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How often should you talk to someone you are hookup

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I am a year-old woman living in Brooklyn, working at a startup and writing in my free-time as a side hustle. I downloaded the app last year after a painful breakup.

Initially, I was reluctant to use it, worried Tinder would only lead to hookups and frustration. But I gave it a shot because I wanted to meet someone, and, to be honest, all my single friends were using it. For a while, Tinder did indeed strike me as a gross hookup app so many shirtless men.

The app provides you an endless pool of people to date, which gives you an opportunity to explore how you communicate, what kinds of people you are attracted to and what your non-negotiables are. Here are 12 of them:. Accepting that attraction is a weird, idiosyncratic, kind of mystical thing will help you make dating much easier on yourself. But know that going into it. By the same token, if you want something more serious, own that.

You are not some crazy, monogamy-obsessed loser if you sign up for Tinder because you want a relationship.

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