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I want a spanking

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I've had a lot of people ask why it's important to have consistent discipline. For a while my husband and I stopped, well, we didn't really stop,we just didn't have time and our marriage came apart. I resented him for not noticing that I needed his authority and accountability.

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I started to feel unloved and unnoticed and we ended up in a really bad place. After a few sessions with a marriage therapist, she recommended that we re-commit to maintenance spankings at a minimum of two times per week. She also recommended that we use a spanking machine or put in place a regular method for self spanking when my husband is gone for work.

It took us several months to get this going but I am happy to report that our marriage is back on track and blossoming and has never felt better for either of us.

I thought we were on the verge of divorce and now I can't imagine being without him. How we turned things around: I was given two maintenance spankings a week and these were not just vague spankings which I think is where couples miss out on the meaning of the maintenance spanking. They are supposed to help you maintain good behavior and do the things you want to do. So, our therapist recommended that before each maintenance spanking, I write down what I wanted to be reminded of and my husband reads it with me.

He then tells me to take off my clothes and "I want a spanking" over his knees. While I'm I want a spanking vulnerable draped over his lap he reminds me of my list and commits himself to help hold me accountable for everything on that list.

Then he asks me what will happen if I stray from the list and I verbally acknowledge that I will be punished. This verbal communication is important to keep us bonded and focused on the joint goal of becoming a better person and it bonds us in our commitment to each other.

He spanks me with his bare hand long and hard, usually around swats or until my bottom is bright red and hot and I am crying. Our therapist recommended that I want a spanking sessions were more forceful and issued right away.

This is hard when we're not alone or in public, but we made a commitment to try to be better at it.

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