There are currently users online. Login or Sign Up. Previous 1 2 template Next. That is the 1 thing I hear from people when they find out I am in process!! What I want to know is, what in the world are you guys doing to make them say these things?? They are crazy, cheaters, wife beaters, liars, etc.
Too f'd up from dealing with the worst of the worst. The list goes on and on!
I personally don't know any cops well enough to judge these things, and some of the people are just going by rumor as well, but still, it's a little disturbing that I hear it so much! And not that I was planning to date anyone anyway, I just wondered what the heck am I getting into!
And, supposing there are Dating a police officer stories few bad apples, is it the police job that causes people do this, or do they start out that way and just gravitate towards a career in law enforcement?
I've been dying to ask. All I can say is I dated a few cops back in the day, but ended up marrying someone not in law enforcement. You are gonna get positive and negative comments for both situations so you just gotta make up your own mind.
Though it was OK to date them but not to marry? If you are a woman just getting into this job, do NOT date your fellow Officers. You'll get a rep and BAD. It's okay for them to whore around, not for you. Someone always finds out and they are not nice about it. Then again, someone that wanted the position you got will probably allege it anyway.
This job isn't the kindest to women I don't know about the homosexual ones other than they get a lot of grief from citizens Dating a police officer stories time to time. I dated my first cop after about seven years in. Originally posted by VegasMetro View Post. Just shut your damn hole Dead SoulsThey keep calling me.
I will say that the job does attract a certain type. That combined with long periods away from home, etc etc etc There's a reason the divorce rate among LEO is 85 percent.
Me, I started dating my boyfriend while at the Academy. It was horrid, all the rumors that flew around because of it. We "Dating a police officer stories" in the same class, and while there were no rules about it, we were both in positions of authority within the class and everyone accused me of getting special treatment because I was the female half.
We work is departments 2. As far as dating cops though I don't see a problem with it. Maybe because I am one? Cops aren't all bad, but take a regular human being, add in alpha personality, some stress and a strong connection with coworkers and it does strain a relationship.
It's really hard dating a cop. The odd schedules, the extra shifts they pick up, the way their attitude changes - all are factors which people think twice before dating cops. I honestly didn't know what I was getting myself into. This show is awesome, wrapped in supercool and smothered in bitchin. The only way it could be cooler is if he was riding a unicorn or something.
It's not always that easy as some people make it out to be. As Sam said, Dating a police officer stories are humans. There is only so much we can control. The reasons people have such a hard time with dating cops is that a large majority of us are control freaks to some extent.
Women see the cop in uniform and see someone that looks to be in shape okay, SOMEtimes All those things, coupled with finally having someone to show the parents that not everyone she dates turns out to be a turd is very enticing. Now, these women don't see the bad side of us from the get-go. They'll say we're liars because a few of us are. People that don't obey the law don't like getting caught. Your friends may think dating a cop will make you "square" because now you can't go out and drink then drive home.
No more smoking the odd "joint" around you because you're with a cop. Every civil service job seems to have their similar stories due to the stresses "Dating a police officer stories" face at work.